Today we headed to Leavenworth, WA for the Oktoberfest. It was a 2 hour drive each way and it gave Stephanie and I opportunity to share more our lives and hearts with one another. I know I learned more about her history and I'm guessing she learned more about mine. There's something about being enclosed in a car that makes vulnerability and transparency feel safe. There's something about a drive in the car that makes it easier to process through something. It was a beautiful day all around but today I was grateful for car ride conversations.
There are two probable origins for this idiom and I think both are equally plausible. The first one is that when you spread butter on bread you are buttering it up like one would do when trying to flatter someone. The second is in ancient India there was a practice of throwing balls of butter at statues to ask for favor, i.e. buttering them up. ( source ) When we use the phrase today we generally mean that extreme flattery is used to gain information or favor. It's not always necessarily a compliment.
Comments
Post a Comment