We are addicted to our thoughts. We cannot change anything if we cannot change our thinking.   Santosh Kalwar Nothing changes until we change how we think about the person, the situation, the (fill in the blank) .  But we like our wrong thinking about the person, the situation, the  (fill in the blank) .  We might say we don't like our thinking about it but we do.  How do I know (outside of the obvious fact that I do this as well)?  Because we "pet" our thinking and encourage it to stay by feeding it, justifying it, looking for and finding reasons to excuse it, ignoring the stench of it, etc.  Our thinking stinks!  And I know this because anything unhealthy that we are unwilling to part with eventually becomes stagnant and stinky.  It becomes like a drug that we can't get enough of.  We are addicted to our stinkin' thinkin'! Pride is the main key, or problem, to all of this.  We are prideful.  We are too prid...