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Forgiveness is such a tough and, at times, controversial topic. Here's a few ideas floating around around forgiveness that might help.  How Do You Forgive Even When It Feels Impossible? Forgiveness: 7 Steps to Healing After Someone's Hurt You How to Forgive Someone When It’s Hard: 30 Tips to Let Go of Anger

This phrase, then and now, suggests that someone is so gentle, or nonviolent, that they would not even harm a single, pesky little fly. It first appeared in 1778, read about it here .