If you aren't sure who you are or who the real you is read through these  29 questions to discover the real you . How Do You Actually Learn To Love Yourself? Take time out to really understand and learn about yourself. Get to know yourself, what you like, and what you want in life. Is there a right or wrong way to get to know yourself? According to Peg O'Connor Ph.D. the short answer is yes, there is. Click here to read her thoughts about it.