You Are Worth The Fight

Kiss and Make Up Day Resolve your disagreements, with your spouse/significant other, with a kiss.  If you don't want to even get into a heated argument and would prefer to just kiss try this tip that I heard at a bridal shower once: argue naked. Ha! Bet the argument gets settled REAL quick. *wink* I've also heard that when arguing hold hands. Something about having physical touch while trying to argue diffuses the heated emotions. But if you do argue and have resolved it then seal it with a kiss...or two or three!  :) Whiskey Sour Day Click on the link for this and you'll get some recipes. The Classic Recipe

Not the kind of fighting, necessarily, that is divisive, damaging, and/or detrimental but the kind of fighting that each of us needs to stay in our relationships - be it the marriage one, the parenting one, or the friendships. We all need to have the fighting spirit in us to make sure our relationships stay current, that complacency doesn't infect them, that they remain healthy and maintained.  I'm grateful for the fighting spirit that resides within me.  Sometimes it is deeeeeep down and I have to really dig to find it but I always do and I'm grateful for the gift of the fighter in me because I want my relationships to thrive not just survive.