Recently I was talking with someone about turning points that we have in life.  Do you know what I mean? Those times we all experience that serve as a turning point in our life - it turns us away from something detrimental and towards something beneficial, turns us away from a toxic relationship so we can move toward a healthy one, etc.  Turning points are usually those things that we experience and see as a huge step but others, even our spouses, may look at and shrug their shoulders like, "It isn't THAT big of a deal." But we know don't we? We know it really IS that big of a deal.  We know that no matter how small or insignificant it looks or looked like to others that for us it was huge.  It was monumental.  It was game-changing.  It was life transforming. And maybe eventually others will see it really is a big deal and maybe they won't. No matter.  It was a turning point for regardless. And nobody else's response or lack of response to our moment ...