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For Wednesday, March 20: Change

Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.  Jacob M. Braude

BOY HOWDY!  Isn't this the truth?!  I have enough trouble trying to change things about myself much less trying to change another person.  Besides, it's not my job to change others.  If I focus on others then that means I am not focused on myself and myself is the only person I should be working on.  Same goes for *you*.  What could be or would be different if we all focused on ourselves and the changes we know we need to make in our own lives?  Improvements to our self usually means we settle down and quit nitpicking on others.  What a relief for them and us!

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