I'm grateful for the bittersweet of life and of relationships. Oh, I may not say that in the midst of the circumstance or relationship but hindsight tells me I am grateful for it. I'm grateful that along with the bitter there is some sweet to be found. It may be small, barely registering on the scale of life, but it is there and I have personally experienced the growth of the sweet to balance out the bitter that comes. But in some ways, here's where I get crazy, I am also grateful for the bitter of life. (Hindsight, this is all in hindsight.) In the bitter of life I have seen some pretty incredible things happen and people rise to courage, myself included. And there has been tremendous personal growth from the bitter turned to sweet things of life. It's all a matter of perspective.
There are two probable origins for this idiom and I think both are equally plausible. The first one is that when you spread butter on bread you are buttering it up like one would do when trying to flatter someone. The second is in ancient India there was a practice of throwing balls of butter at statues to ask for favor, i.e. buttering them up. ( source ) When we use the phrase today we generally mean that extreme flattery is used to gain information or favor. It's not always necessarily a compliment.
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